Thursday, September 22, 2011

Miss Universe 2011: Nothing and Everything for Deborah Henry

Deborah with Brazil, Netherlands, who made top 16, and Aruba



Everytime I spoke to someone when I was in Sao Paulo, Brazil for Miss Universe, it was pretty much the same thing.

Before Miss Universe 2011 final night:

"Oh my GOD I LOVE your girl! Malaysia is VERY impressive this year!"
"Look at my list! Look look LOOK I made a list! LOOK your girl is # 1/2/3/4/5!!"
"WOW your MALAYSIA IS STUNNING! STUN. NING!"
"SHE'S MY FAVOURITE!"


(You kinda get the picture..)

After Miss Universe 2011 final night:

"WHAT HAPPENED?? WHY DID SHE NOT PLACE??"
"I am so sorry. Something must've gone wrong. SOMETHING SOMEWHERE"
"Darling. I just want you to know, I thought she should've at least placed. She was beautiful in the prelims!"
"Its not your fault, its not her fault, its the JUDGES! HOW could they overlook HER!?"


(again, you get the picture..)

I had the same response to both types of comments. I just smiled, and said thanks.

It hurt, and I felt sad. For Deborah, she put in so much work into preparing herself.. For her family, who travelled more than halfway around the world to see their daughter (who many predicted would WIN), go unplaced. Of course, I was sad for Malaysia, our people and country, whose hopes were riding so high on Debs. And why not? People from ALL around the world predicted her to be the one to beat!

An unprecedented level of support flew out to Debs and I before and even after the pageant. We are both touched with the love that our country had in their hearts for us.

But it's still sad.

Now the 1 million dollar question is: If Deborah couldn't place, how will any other Malaysian do well at Miss Universe?

The answer is simple: There are different judges every year. Different political situations, different dramas, different countries hosting. I firmly believe that Deborah could've won, if situations would have been different. She would be just a deserving winner as Miss Angola, the reigning Miss Universe, is right now. But the thing is:

SO WOULD MANY OTHER GIRLS THAT NIGHT. (Be deserving winners, that is)

We must remember that all 89 girls had a certain level of beauty. A lot of them did not place, who were on the same 'level'. Arguably, some even were better than Debs! (My prediction was it'd have come down between Greece, Malaysia and Ukraine, and whoever answered the question best would win..)









The videos above are of the Preliminary competition, of which the girls were judged BEFORE the final night, in order to select the TOP 16 finalists. These videos do not do the girls justice, as they really did have much more stage presence than what you see on the vids.

Anyway. Bottom line is this: Such is the nature of competitions. The ones you think are best may not necessarily win. Point is, Deborah made us SO proud. I have not come across a Malaysian who did not firmly believe that she should've at least place. Furthermore, she played a role of actually bringing Malaysia TOGETHER in support of her. How great was that? Twitter was flooded with well wishes, the media covered her journey manically, and did you know that "Miss Universe" and "Miss Malaysia Deborah Henry" was the 3rd fastest rising search quotes on the net in Malaysia last week?!

Sometimes to win you just need Lady Luck on your side. Instead, Debs had all of Malaysia. She's come home with her head high, with 'Nothing' to show for the 'Everything' that she should be proud of!

Malaysia Boleh, Miss Universe! And one day, some day, you will recognize that too!





8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well said Andrea. You and Deb have conducted yourselves with Class and grace throughout the entire process. Keep up the good work. Love an Australian Girl full of respect x x x

Anonymous said...

actuall andrea i know the EXACT REASON why she did not place
1) if she enter top 16 for sure she will be in top 10 because her swimsuit skills is to die for
2)if she is in top 10 sure she wil be in top 5 because she got the most elegant in evening gown competition
3)if she in the top 5 sure she will win the MISS UNIVERSE 2011 title because her brain is the best and she got the best web interview.
4) SO THE POINT is the muo do not want this to happen since it is MALAYSIA a unknown and infamous country in miss universe pageant ti win th e title even though it is DEBORAH... so the only thing is not to put her in top 16 will cover all...
5)THEY WASTED A D QUEEN......

Anonymous said...

Thanks Andrea!!!! As a Malaysian, I am very Proud of you and our girl Debby!!!Thank You!!!

Pravin R.Jayabalan said...

don't feel sad Andrea as its MUO who should feel sad on loosing a great-potential MU... anyhow; myself, my family & my circle of friends & i may take this opportunity to say that all Malaysians - We are proud of MUMO team & Debbie for making us proud & my support is for MUMO forever.

now, just focus on the next venture & no hard work goes unrecognized.

Anonymous said...

yes, she should have been in the final 5..i was so sad that she didnt make it to the top 16. but could it be that they did not want an ex contestant of Miss World to make it in the final of Miss Universe? anyway proud of both of you.

Anonymous said...

I will admit that Debs looks good, but Angola had a better "friendly" personality/look to her, more approachable and Debs seemed a bit overly-confident and maybe lacked the smile, or charm, which I think the judges went for someone who can relate to others and make them feel at ease. Otherwise, there was nothing else wrong with her.

Andrea Fonseka said...

Uh, anonymous, how can Angola's 'friendly' look be a reason why Debs didn't make it into top 16?

She wasn't seemingly overconfident. Infact I could say the looked far more approachable than Kosovo, Venezuela, Puerto Rico, ... So that theory of yours doesn't make sense.

Anonymous said...

Dear Andrea

As a fellow Malaysian, I too am sad that Malaysia/Deborah Henry didnt even get placed in the Top 16. So much expectations, so much potential, so much hope. Whilst I am no pageant expert, in my honest opinion, a couple of attributes of Deborah (that shd have been an advantage to any girl) worked against her.

Number 1, her age. Im not sure if she was the oldest contestant (well at least one of the oldest), being 26 compared to all the other 19-23 yos, who are just as intelligent, confident, beautiful.. Deborah's intelligence paled in comparison to these younger girls, as she ought to be with her extra years of experience (even taken part and did ok in Miss World). So, if i were one of the judges, I'd say, yeah shes smart, beautiful, confident but she ought to be given her age and experience. So the younger girls shone better.

Number 2, I think we have come a long way since the beauty without brains pageant days. we dont need to prove that participants of these beauty pageants are not just another pretty face. I personally felt Deborah was tryin too hard to prove a point that she is not just all looks and body and legs. I totally agree she had the best and most sensible answers, very eloquent but I think she was trying too hard to rid that perception and trying to prove a point that shes intelligent that she forgot to have fun.. its ok to give a witty answer sometimes. Make the judges laugh/smile. Let your shoulders down once in a while in front of the judges. I smiled at some of the answers given by Miss Philippines, Thailand. But i did not at all think they were dits. Even on Bella, you guys were still harping on how these girls are smart/phd holders, very articulate, etc, etc, etc. Well to me, if you are, you just are. No need to say it that many times. Theres no need to prove to ppl/nay sayers that beauty contestants are no longer just airheads.

So, thats my take on why Deborah didnt get placed. I respect if you do not agree, but since you wrote abt this, I guess you have to hear what others have to say too :)

But good job and like you said, better luck next year.